There are many reasons why people don't exercise, such as a busy schedule or not seeing results. In fact, more than 60% of American adults don't get the recommended amount of physical activity and more than 25% of adults are not active at all.
It is important to get and stay motivated to work out because the benefits are numerous. If you don't regularly exercise and are hoping to change course, here are some potential reasons you may not be exercising. You also will find advice on how you can make these issues a thing of the past.
Breaking down barriers to exercise
The first thing we need to do is acknowledge everyone’s personal situation. If you are reading this and believe willpower is enough, consider the differences between the following patients from the paper Privileging the Privileged:
A professional with a high income who lives in a suburb with trees and a partner who stays at home, and who has easy access to a gym with good equipment and enjoys being active after sitting at work for most of the day.
A single parent acts as both mother and father to their young children while working three jobs to make ends meet. They live in a small studio in a dangerous neighbourhood and have limited time and energy to dedicate to exercise after working all day and taking care of the house and children.
How would you design an exercise routine and lifestyle habits to support regular physical activity for the second individual?
Discipline is not the only requirement for exercise.
Resources matter.
Many people assume that resources like safe sidewalks are a given, but this is not the case. I developed strong relationships with my patients and learned about their circumstances, which showed me that safe neighborhoods are not something that everyone has access to.
We all have the same amount of time in a day, but some of us have less time to ourselves because we have to work more or commute for longer. I didn't realize how much time I wasted until I had a full-time job and two kids. I'm lucky that I have a steady job that doesn't require me to work more than 40 hours a week or commute for a long time.
It’s a structural problem. I can easily find time to work out in my schedule. My decision is between exercise and reading a book. For others, it may be between exercise and spending time with their kids or taking on another work shift to pay the rent. Not exercising regularly isn’t a simple matter of discipline. It’s a structural problem.
For those reading those who struggle with exercising regularly, which of the aforementioned barriers apply to you? Let’s review them and identify specific strategies that may be able to address (at least partially) each one:
- Characteristics of the exercise program — Individualize the program based on your likes. Walking is a great form of exercise, for example. Don’t do something that brings no joy or fulfillment.
- Involvement of professionals from different disciplines — seek multiple sources of information not a single magic bullet program or the advice of a single healthcare provider.
- Supervision — If you are uncomfortable with exercise, fear injury, or don’t know how to start, seek out a friend or family member with some experience to exercise with. If you have the financial resources, hire a trainer, even if for a short period to become comfortable.
- Technology — There are many programs available online that provide guidance. You can do group fitness classes at home too. There is no “best” program. You can get in shape and improve your health with nearly anything on the market.
- Initial exploration of participant’s characteristics, barriers, and facilitators — always create a personalized approach and be honest about your barriers. Ignore the one-size-fits-all approaches. You also need less time than you think to see benefits from exercise. The exercise snack approach (one set of bodyweight exercise every hour throughout the day) is great for strength.
- Participants' education, adequate expectations and knowledge about risks and benefits — There are many free resources available to learn more about exercise, just make sure it is a credible source.
- Enjoyment and absence of unpleasant experiences — Experience will be one of the best teachers as you learn how much and what types of exercise fit your life and are meaningful to you. For me, that has shifted to calisthenics and strongman lifts.
- Integration in daily living — Fit your exercise habits to your schedule. Ignore the people who say you have to exercise at a specific time or place. Perhaps you use exercise snacks or only perform long routines on the weekend, opting to focus on being more active during the week (e.g., taking the stairs and walking more).
- Social support and relatedness — Find people to exercise with or at least share your exercise goals and experiences. Support can occur outside of the exercise routines. Accountability partners are strong motivators for behavior change.
- Communication and feedback — Don’t only share your successes and struggles with exercise, listen to the stories of others and provide your perspective. Teaching others is one of the best methods for personal learning.
- Available progress information and monitoring — Track your exercise. Write down how many reps you did, the total time of exercise, the number of exercise snacks, or the personal record weight you lifted. You will be amazed at the progress when you look back after a few weeks or months.
- Self-efficacy and competence — Along with writing down numbers, track the type of exercise you do. If you have a camera, record your exercises so you can see how your movement quality and effort change. See the variety of exercises you can do that you couldn’t do previously (e.g., types of pushups)
- Participant’s active role — If you hire a trainer or work with a healthcare provider to develop an exercise plan, don’t be a passive participant. Share your goals, barriers, and facilitators. Give your thoughts on all the details of the routine to personalize it. No one knows you better than you.
- Goal setting — Set a variety of goals. Set goals that are easy to achieve and stretch goals. Set short-term and long-term goals. Share your goals with an accountability partner.
It's hard to stick to an exercise routine. Every stage of life has its own set of obstacles to overcome. I can only speak from my own perspective. Talk to other people to get ideas for ways to deal with the obstacles you're facing.
Starting small and focusing on physical activity, rather than formal exercise, may be the best approach for you.
You Don't Enjoy Exercise
Getting into shape may be tough at the beginning, but it will get easier as you keep at it. Your body will become stronger the more you work out, and once you find an exercise routine that you like, you might start to actually enjoy working out.
Don't feel like you need to commit to the first form of exercise you try. Instead, explore different options for getting fit.
For example, if you like working out with other people, most gyms offer a variety of options. You can find classes like spin, kickboxing, circuit training, and weightlifting, to name a few. If you prefer to work out at home, you can join an at-home fitness group like Peloton. This way you can take group fitness classes without having to leave your house.
Fitness video games can help to make working out more fun, especially for kids. Try incorporating some VR or video games into your workout routine. Research has shown that these types of games can help people to remain physically active and improve their overall health.
Like having a personal trainer, downloading fitness apps on your smartphone or tablet can give you workout ideas, progress tracking, and motivation. Some apps even let you connect and compete with other fitness enthusiasts.
Even doing your regular chores can help burn calories. To make them more challenging and increase the benefit, try doing things like raking small piles of leaves instead of large ones, so you need to squat down to gather them more often.
You Keep Quitting
People may skip, postpone, or entirely cancel their workout plans for many reasons, but there are some common reasons why people lose their motivation to exercise.
You may be taking on too much too soon if you go from no exercise at all to hitting the gym 7 days a week. You may be overtraining and you're bound to feel burnt out. Try easing into a new routine instead.
You should also research and plan ahead before going to the gym. This way, you can learn more about the machines and target your exercises to your goals. If you just go in without a plan, you'll probably end up doing random exercises or not completing them regularly. Most gyms offer tours of their facilities so you can learn more about what they offer.
Boredom is another reason people quit working out. Some people love treadmills or stationary bikes, while others find these exercises boring. If you are bored with your current exercises, they may not be a good fit for you. Find something that you are interested in and that offers enough variety to keep your workout from feeling stale.
Soreness is expected when you are just starting out. However, you should still have energy to do other things. If your workout is so intense that you are exhausted afterwards and/or you get injured, you will likely not want to do it again once you feel better.
Tips to Keep From Quitting
- Work with a trainer: An experienced trainer can turn a lackluster workout into an effective and challenging routine.
- Change your workouts: Try different types of training to keep things interesting, such as circuit training, high-intensity interval training, and kettlebells. Be sure to balance strength with cardio workouts. This also helps you avoid plateaus.
- Avoid skipping: If you want to skip out on the gym, there's probably a reason. Really think about what it is and if it's something you really can overcome.
You Can't Afford a Gym Membership
a fitness pass that gives you access to a variety of gyms in your area. There's no reason you can't exercise without joining a gym, but if you're determined to leave the house to work out, there are more affordable options such as the YMCA or local community centers. You also can work out at home or purchase a fitness pass that gives you access to a variety of gyms in your area.
How to Save Money on Workouts
- Walk or run: All you need is a good pair of shoes for this simple, accessible workout.
- Buy multi-use equipment: An exercise ball can be used for core work, weight training, and even cardio. Dumbbells are usually inexpensive and can be used for the entire body.
- Work out at home: If you need ideas, look to videos for inspiration. You can also make up your own routines—just put on some music and get moving.
- Find free resources: The Internet is a great source for workouts and weight-loss programs, and your library is an excellent resource for trying workout videos or finding books about exercise.
- Try no equipment workouts: You can get a great workout without any equipment by using your own body weight.
You're Not Seeing Changes in Your Body
Despite the slow progress, exercise is still the safest and most effective way to improve your fitness. Even if you aren't seeing the results you want as quickly as you would like, don't give up on your fitness goals. It takes time to see results and you can't expect to become physically fit overnight. Exercise is still the best way to improve your fitness level, even if it takes longer than you want it to.
The first step in achieving your fitness goals is taking that first step. Your body takes time to see changes, so don't get discouraged if you don't see results immediately. Give it up to 12 weeks and you should start to see major changes.
Additionally, be certain that your fitness goals are achievable. Until then, remain concentrated on the positives of being physically active, like decreasing stress and bettering posture.
You Don't Know How to Exercise
As a beginner to exercise, you may feel overwhelmed by all the different types of exercise available. It can be difficult to figure out which type of exercise is right for you. However, there are many resources available to help you.
Working with a personal trainer at a gym or fitness center can help you reach your fitness goals. If you are working out at home or are on a budget, free fitness programs can give you the guidance you need to get started. Online videos or apps can also provide helpful instruction.
You're Too Stressed
When you are stressed, it can make it harder to do things like working out.
Waiting until you feel like exercising can actually make things worse. You have to work at being motivated every day.
Write down your goals and remind yourself of them daily. Each time you reach a goal, whether it's completing your workouts for the week or feeling more energized, give yourself a small reward.
Make a list of things that make you feel good and help you relax. This can include things like getting a massage, listening to music, or reading a book. Find a way to connect with others who have similar goals. This can be done by joining a gym or class, or by participating in online forums or social media groups.
The key is to focus on how you feel and the other benefits you're experiencing. Putting your focus on how you feel rather than on the numbers you see on the scale or in the mirror can be discouraging if you don't see changes in your body as soon as you had hoped. However, there are other benefits of working out that you might be overlooking, such as better balance and more energy. The key is to focus on how you feel and the other benefits you're experiencing.
You Don't Have Time
Although it may seem like there is not enough time to exercise, it does not have to be time-consuming to be effective. If you take a closer look at how you spend your time, you may have more time than you thought to set aside for this activity.
How to Prioritize Workouts
- Put your workout on your schedule. Keep a calendar of your workouts so you can track your progress and stay motivated.
- Break up your workouts. Just because you can't find a 30-minute slot of time during your day for a workout doesn't mean you can't work out at all. Try breaking your activity up into 10- or 15-minute segments. Research has shown that split workouts are just as effective as continuous workouts.5
- Add more movement to your day. Get up a few minutes early and take a brisk walk, use part of your lunch break for a stretch, or take the dog out for a romp after work. Even small changes, like parking at the far side of the lot or taking the stairs when possible, add up over time.
- Focus on the positives of exercise. Aside from feeling better, improving your fitness level, and reducing the risk of certain illnesses, exercising regularly will give you more energy and help you sleep better. After all, exercise generates energy, and the more energy you have, the more you'll get done each day.
Finding the motivation and time to work out can be difficult, but there are many benefits to exercising regularly. Find a routine that works for you and make time for it in your schedule. Be patient as you figure out your fitness journey.